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Relationship Decoder

See him clearly in the first 90 days, before your heart decides for you.

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Why you’ll love it

  • A clear 56-point scorecard across 14 areas, from integrity to family values
  • Green, yellow & red flags, so you know when to lean in, pause or walk away
  • A gentle First 90 Days plan that reveals character without tests or games
  • Kind-but-clear scripts for boundaries, repair and graceful exits
What’s inside
  1. A letter & how to use it: when to start and how scoring works
  2. Part 1 · The Decoder Scorecard: 14 categories, 56 points, three clear verdicts
  3. Part 2 · The Yellow-Flag Playbook: name it, set a boundary, time-box it
  4. Part 3 · The Hard Red-Flag List: when to step away, no matter the score
  5. Part 4 · First 90 Days Plan: everyday moments that reveal character
  6. Part 5 · Quick Scripts: words for boundaries, repair asks and exits
  7. Part 6 · Foundations of a Future Husband: provision, decisions, fatherhood, commitment
  8. Printable score sheet (2 pages) + Bonus: 10 green-flag & 10 red-flag moments
Who it’s for

For you if you’re dating someone new, are a few months in, or are thinking about exclusivity or engagement, and want to trust what you see instead of second-guessing it.

How to use it

Use it over the first 3–6 dates and the first 90 days. Score each category, watch for hard red flags, and follow the 90-day plan. It’s not a test to trap him; it’s a set of gentle observations to keep you clear, safe and true to what you want.

Format & delivery

A 19-page PDF to print or use on your tablet. Your download link arrives by email right after purchase. Please save the file to your device once you’ve downloaded it.

“Your worth is not measured by someone else’s attention, but by the peace you feel in their presence.”
From the opening letter · Dear Daughter Club

A peek inside

Relationship Decoder – A letter to you
A letter to you
Relationship Decoder – The Decoder Scorecard
The Decoder Scorecard
Relationship Decoder – First 90 Days plan
First 90 Days plan

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